We talk a lot about being spanked and about doing the spanking but what about watching people get spanked? At a party one is put in the position of watching automatically, but what are your actual thoughts about it?
Do you enjoy watching someone get spanked? Do you prefer seeing light spankings?
Do hard discipline spankings interest you more? With or without implements? On the bare, Panty-clad, or over skirt, jeans, or shorts?
Todd and I met online on a relationships message board and he was the only person there who kept talking about 'spanking' in relationships and even though he was getting a bit of flack from others in the group (non spankos), both his boldness and his knowledge on the subject, intrigued me and so I messaged him and that's where we first connected...
I have talked to several spankos that are either looking or have met their Spanko partner through various methods in the spanking community. Some were referred by close friends, some just emailed the other from seeing them in a group, some met at parties, some went through online meeting sites, and many other ways.
How did you meet your current spankee/spanker? If you are currently looking for a spankee/spanker, what areas do you frequent and what methods do you find work most effectively?
Over the last 6 months, Todd and I have been clearing out our shed and our messy back porch and trying to minimize some of the clutter in our home (I am a bit of a packrat and he's finally had enough LOL)
So as we've been doing this, I keep moving around our bag of toys and then our bag of canes and also our assorted small bags of miscellaneous spanking items and reorganizing our kink videos and our naughty sex toys and I found it amusing that I felt I needed a closet JUST for our Spanking Stuff! In a few more years possibly another Shed! :)
So, where do you keep your fun stuff?
Do you keep toys and implements in different areas than your videos and more vanilla appearing items?
Has anyone vanilla ever accidentally ran across your goodies?
I get asked from time to time where I get my panties from. I know I don't have NEAR the collection some people do but I also don't shop as much as many women either lol. Lots of the cutest panties I've gotten have been from off the wall places like casino gift shops and hotels and airports little side shops. I also find some cute panties at Walmart from time to time but never when I WANT to find them, that's when they have nothing, it's only when I'm not really looking for them that I find something adorable there. Cato's is great for cute panties (and bra sets too) and if you catch a sale they are reasonably priced too. A friend at the party this weekend said that Target has cute panties on occasion too so I'll have to check them out next time I'm around a Target. I know there are many other shops like Victoria's secret or Fredericks but I don't get to those stores enough (even online) to catch any good deals.
Spankees, where do you shop for your panties?
Spankers, where do you go to buy your wife, girlfriend, spankee, friends panties?